J Blessing has left many wondering if all is well in his life.
The music director shared a post hinting that he wasn’t lucky in love.
In part he wrote;
IT HURTS TO LOVE SOMEONE AND NOT BE LOVED IN RETURN. BUT WHAT IS MORE PAINFUL IS TO LOVE SOMEONE AND NEVER FIND THE COURAGE TO LET THAT PERSON KNOW HOW YOU FEEL. MAYBE GOD WANTS US TO MEET A FEW WRONG PEOPLE BEFORE MEETING THE RIGHT ONES SO THAT WHEN WE FINALLY MEET THE RIGHT PERSON WE WILL KNOW HOW TO BE GRATEFUL FOR THAT GIFT.
J Blessing went ahead to school his followers on love, saying what hurts most is finding out someone you love doesn’t do the same.
LOVE IS WHEN YOU TAKE AWAY THE FEELING, THE PASSION AND THE ROMANCE IN A RELATIONSHIP AND FIND OUT YOU STILL CARE FOR THAT PERSON. A SAD THING IN LIFE IS WHEN YOU MEET SOMEONE WHO MEANS A LOT TO YOU AND LATER TO FIND OUT, IN THE END, IT WAS NEVER MEANT TO BE AND YOU JUST HAVE TO LET GO. WHEN THE DOOR OF HAPPINESS CLOSES, ANOTHER OPENS BUT OFTEN TIMES WE LOOK SO LONG AT THE CLOSED DOOR THAT WE DON’T SEE THE ONE THAT HAS BEEN OPENED FOR US. THE BEST KIND OF FRIEND IS THE KIND YOU CAN JUST BE WITH, NEVER SAY A WORD & THEN WALK AWAY FEELING LIKE IT WAS THE BEST CONVERSATION YOU’VE EVER HAD.
He further advised his followers not to be deceived by looks when looking for love.
It is true that we don’t know what we’ve got until we lose it but it’s also true that we don’t know what we’ve been missing until it arrives.
Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they will love you back. Don’t expect love in return, just wait for it to grow in their heart, but if it doesn’t, be content it grew in yours.
There are things you would love to hear that you would never hear from the person whom you would like to hear them from.
But don’t be so deaf as not to hear it from the one who says it from their heart. Never say goodbye if you still want to try, never give up if you still feel you can go on, never say you don’t love a person anymore if you can’t let go.
Love comes to those who still hope although they have been disappointed, to those who still believe although they have been betrayed, to those who still need to love although they have been hurt before and to those who have the courage and faith to build trust again.
It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget about someone.
Don’t go for looks, they can deceive, don’t go for wealth, even that fades away.
Go for someone who makes you smile…because it takes only smile to make a dark day seem bright.
Go for someone who makes you smile…because it takes only smile to make a dark day seem bright.
J Blessing has a child with Radio Maisha’s Mwende Macharia and rumour has it that he has another child with a popular singer. The two [J Blessing and singer were said to be dating but from his post, it seems they’re no longer an item.
His fans echoed his sentiments and encouraged him. Reactions include;
bahatikenya Baba Yangu Baba Yangu!!! Hii ni Love tumeongelea 6AM in the morning 
kriserroh Deep bro….well received. Found some pointers too in this… Asante.
ambassadamusiq It is well my Brother. Take it all to God who never fails. Just like your name, more Blessings…
frazerkaf Love is one complicated feeling in the world,they say “love is giving someone else power to destroy you,but trusting them not to do it”
lantoijoyce Are you speaking to me ?
. I really needed to hear this. Thank you for sharing
. I really needed to hear this. Thank you for sharing
emmanuelmuthuijr001 Nice one saw some video with almost the same words
Fact though
Fact though
masmelody Big bro Love ime kuwa ka competition mtu ana Ku penda but hapendi Ku onesha coz ana feel ka aki Ku show love you will be the winner so ana kufa na mapenzi so si wewe pekee una teseka nyinyi wote