Marriage is not easy. It involves a lot of sacrifices. In short, it’s meant for the faint hearted.
A married Kenyan woman has left tongues wobbling after she confessed that she still dates her high school boyfriend behind her husband’s back.
“MY LOVE FOR MY HUSBAND CAN’T BE COMPARED TO THE LOVE I GIVE MY BOYFRIEND. THE AFFAIR WITH MY BOYFRIEND IS JUST A CONTINUATION OF WHAT WE STARTED WHEN WE WERE KIDS.
I CAN JUST SAY WE ARE FOND OF EACH OTHER. I LIKE HIM AS A FRIEND AND HE SUPPORTS ME EMOTIONALLY WHEN MY HUSBAND IS DETACHED.”
According to this woman, her husband, the father of her two children is not fulfilling his duties as a husband and also he has no time for his family especially when they’re financially down.
“IF WE HAVE FINANCIAL PROBLEMS, MY MAN IS NEVER IN THE MOOD. HE GETS EXCITED ONLY WHEN THINGS ARE GOING SMOOTHLY,” SHE SAYS.
“WHEN PROBLEMS ARISE, HE BLOCKS ME OUT, DENIES ME SEX AND FAILS TO SUPPORT ME EMOTIONALLY. HE IS PRESENT PHYSICALLY BUT ABSENT EMOTIONALLY.
AT SUCH TIMES, I TURN TO MY BOYFRIEND, WHO IS ALSO MARRIED, FOR EMOTIONAL SUPPORT. WE MEET, HAVE SEX, TALK AND DISCUSS ISSUES BEFORE I GO BACK HOME.”
The mother of two revealed that on average, she has sex with her husband twice a month but when it comes to her mpango wa kando who is a bedroom bully, they have sex up to four times in a month.