Men are naturally selective about what flies out of their mouths. They are quiet with major details about their lives.
Here are some of the things most men would carry with them to the grave:
1. Bank balance
Money is core to a man’s life. In a society where men are valued in regards to how fat their bank balance is most men are mum when it comes to finances. Whenever the issue of what a man owes is brought up, most men are jittery about it. Men feel that disclosing how much they have in their bank accounts would create too much unnecessary attention more so from women out there to siphon them.
2. Getting dumped
Been ditched by a woman for another man can really crush a man’s ego. Most men are not open about women who turned down their advances. It crushes their ego. Men love dominating over women and when these fails its one thing men would rather die with. Men only speak about women they have had “lungula” with. That’s something worth an ovation.
3. Accrued debts
We’ve seen men loosing all their fortunes over debts incurred along their life. This has caused a major breakup in a family as their better half never had the knowledge about the debts. Some of these debts are for funding unnecessary things like sponsoring their clandes. We’ve had reports of men committing suicide after being unable to service their debts.
4. “Behind the curtains” addictions
“Kunyonga monkey” among other adult acts. These are some of the acts men are addicted to but would rather keep it to themselves. In a society where religion forms the basis of what’s moral and what’s not, men sulk to the idea of opening up about their secret addictions.
5. Their girlfriends or wives
Bro code has it that anything regarding someone’s wife or girlfriend is an affair between God, the man and his woman. Men don’t discuss about their partners. More so with regards to lungula affairs. This is a tightly secured no-go zone.Men are only open about women they have been involved with in the past or one they are thirsting for.